Ex.2e) Match the definitions to the words in bold from ex. 2a
- during the whole period of time of smth;
- in or into every part of smth;
- to discuss prices, conditions, etc. with smb in order to reach an agreement that is acceptable;
- a tendency to be easily offended or upset by smth;
- closely connected with the subject you are discussing or the situation you are thinking about; having ideas that are valuable and useful to people in their lives and work;
- very good at a particular thing; having a lot of skills;
- expressing opinions or desires strongly and with confidence, so that people take notice;
- a special skill or ability that you have naturally or can learn;
- happening at exactly the right time;
- the ability to understand other people’s feelings;
- a friendly relationship in which people understand each other very well;
- giving a lot of time or attention to smb/smth
Ex.2f) Match the words from the two columns to make collocations. Translate them into Russian:
| 1.body 2.compromise 3.encouraging 4.favourable 5.mutually 6.to share 7.violating 8.communicate | a) acceptable b) approach c) impression d)language e) one’s beliefs f) solutions g )the rights h) supportively |
Ex.2g) Find synonyms to the following words from the words in bold from Ex. 2a.
to communicate
quality
handle
essential
ways
answer
be in harmony with
encouraged
to retain preserved/kept
Ex. 3a) How to Tell if a Relationship Is Good for You. What do these words mean to you?
Empathy
Boundaries
One’s own space
Abuse, n, v
^ What role do they play in your relationships with people? Discuss in pairs and share your opinions with the group.
$Ex.3b) Insert the words or there forms into the interview with a psychologist.
Q: What makes a relationship healthy?
A: When you are connecting with someone who brings out the best in you and the relationship is not based on “What can you do for me?” Both people share ideas, feelings, respect. Both people listen and talk, and they do things to help each other.
__________, really trying to feel what the other person feels, is a huge piece of a healthy relationship. It’s not trying to fixtheirproblem, but just listening to them.
Often adults tell young people what they should be feeling or how to fix the problem. Everybody, including teens, needs someone to hear what they are feeling, because it helps us figure it out. We make better decisions when we know what we are feeling.
In a healthy relationship, you can be your real self. You don’t have to act like somebody else to be loved or accepted.
Q: How do you find your real self?
A: By thinking and talking about your own feelings. If you act from your own feelings, you’ll be true to your own values. You’re not worrying about what other people want you to be or what the media tells you to be.
Q: What questions should you ask yourself about a new relationship?
A: Here are a few:
Is the person able to give and take?
Do you feel valued for who you are rather than what you can do for them?
Can you be yourself? Can the other person?
Can you have _________? Do they respect them? Can you say, “I can’t talk now, I have to do my homework (assignment)/to do stay at home,” or, “I’m not comfortable telling you that yet”? Or, “I don’t want to have sex yet”? You deserve _________: intellectual space, sexual space, actual physical space, emotional space. And stick to it! _________ only work when weenforce them and follow through.
Q: If you’ve been ________, how do you know who to trust?
A: The first thing to realize is that you are going to have trust issues, and you’re probably going to have them forever. You need to recognize that. Take it slow with people you don’t know. Give them a chance to prove to you that they can be trusted. Don’t tell them your whole life story the first time you meet them. You can have ______ around the pain in your life and you get to choose who you share it with.
The more that you learn to trust yourself, the more comfortable you will be in trusting others because your _________ protect you from people who make you uncomfortable. If we’re listening to our inner voice, we will pick up the red flags of another abuser or any other danger.
Q: How can you get help to begin healing and work toward healthy relationships in the future?
A: Getting treatment is very important, because ________can have long-term effects on your other relationships, including repeating the cycle (being abused again and/or becoming abusive yourself). Because healing (and therapy if needed) is so important for working through trauma, ask, ask, ask, until you find the resources you need.