Generation Gap. My Personal Experience of This Phenomenon
My First Day as a Student of Kyiv-Mohyla Academy
My First Day as a Student of Kyiv-Mohyla Academy was very bright, because to enter this university was my dream. I was fool of emotions, my mind was packed with great number of joyful thoughts and my consciousness was overfilled with amazing impressions. The prime part of that day started after a formal fragment of the ceremony when I and my new friends went for a walk make acquaintance closer. I remember that I was astonished at my new friends abilities: they were so talented, intelligent, extraordinary. During the first day I understood that I was in my respective places I want to spend here next six years. That is remembrance that keep in my memory about the first day in the university of my dream.
Changes Wich Have Recently Taken Place in Family Life
The twenty first century brought many changes into social life. Alterations linked with industrialization, globalization, acceleration and emancipation of women. All this transformations have made considerable influence on family institute. In recent years we can observe undermining distinctions between sexes: amplification the role of wife in family and feminization of father. Another feature of our time is weakening of linkages between parents and children that cause lack of time in forebears on their offsprings due to indispensability of earning money. Moreover state of facts to make deeper generation gap. Also single-parent families became widespread phenomenon. Besides, an amount of nuclear family is growing up that entails indissolubility of generations. Consequently, new age had brought us both bad and good changes.
My Attitude to So-called Rules of Succesful Marrige
Rules of successful marriage are a useful list of advice for keeping warm relations in the family, but leading it never bring you to complete happiness, because it doesn`t take into consideration all the specific of a particular situation. These rules are too much generalized and may be not appropriate for character and values of your spouse. For instance, you could be very sensitive to your wife feelings, but she might be introvert and will be angry when you `climb into the soul`. There are also many different lists of rules and great part of them had been composed by dilettantes, so you can even make worse. I am treating with suspicions to all these rules, because I know that there is no universal solution to all problems.
My Idea of a Perfect Marriage
A marriage of my dream is not perfect, because I understand that ideal is something we never reach. If my matrimony is perfect I will apply for divorce, because ideality of my partner would make me feel defective. Also when everything is all right you stop estimate your happiness, because even perfect routine annoys. Nevertheless, I have some conceptions about good hymen. I want my wedlock to be marry, interesting, extraordinar, passionate, unpredictable and a bit crazy, because I like wild girl very much. Moreover the family should consist of three or more sons. It is my dream to have many strong, handsome and consolidated boys. And one more thing, my relationship with spouse must be skittish, because I don’t like formalistic attitude, besides it is so thrilling everyday play another role, to put on new mask. In conclusion, my ideal marriage is wild, problematic, curious relationship with beautiful wife.
Generation Gap. My Personal Experience of This Phenomenon
It is hard for the eldery to understand the youngery, because of different number of life experience. This misunderstanding called generation gap. Like other children I had generation gap with my parents. It referred to the way I dress – my father doesn’t like my fashionable shabby jeans and stylish leather jacket; my haircut style – my mother quarrels with me about my Cossack haircut. They don’t like music I listen to. It is very difficult when people who are closest to you don’t understand you and obtrude you their views on life, but there is the way out – it’s a compromise between generations. This compromise include on the one hand respect to the eldery and on the other hand involve condescension to youngery.